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Your home is a mess [05:39] If you have too much stuff and your home is not functioning well — surfaces are piling up, laundry is not getting done or put away, you can’t cook properly — then you probably are going to hate parenting. It’s not a pleasurable experience to be in a chaotic space that isn’t well run.
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Sportscasting happens when, rather than getting involved in the problem with the child, we describe it for them. Using objective descriptors and an emotionally neutral tone – we reflect for them, with curiosity, what we’re seeing. ( Tweet it!) “Huh, that piece isn’t fitting that way. It’s pretty difficult to get it in.”.
WHAT TO SAY: “I can see you’re trying to do the worst thing you can think of! But I will love you no matter what you do, you can’t escape my love.”. When children act out it can be tempting to chalk it up to “bad behavior,” “demanding attention” or an “annoying mood.”. But all behavior is a communication.
Invite in self compassion and empathy – remind yourself that everyone has challenged and that these are the perfect learning and growth opportunities. Treat yourself as you would your child, had they made a mistake. Gently, and with love. And inevitably these are the energies you will extend to your child as well. Apologize to your child.
In mainstream parenting we are often told that a child who hits is “testing out limits”. Alfie Kohn points out that he may just as easily be “testing our love”. More specifically, testing whether or not our love is conditional, and whether he can behave badly enough for us to withdraw it.
